Your farewell, exactly as you want it
The most difficult day for your loved ones becomes easier when everything is lovingly arranged in advance. Record your wishes — from the music to your own funeral card — and Bruidswarenhuis will pass them on at the right moment.
All wishes in one place
Burial or cremation, the music that should play, the location, who should speak, grave rights with documents — everything in structured steps that you fill in at your own pace and can always adjust.
Your own funeral card and address lists
Design or upload your own funeral card and the invitation to the service, and prepare the address lists. Your loved ones won't need to look anything up — everything is ready, down to who should receive a card.
Personal messages at your farewell
Add personal messages to your funeral plan — in text, audio or video, each with its own title. Your loved ones and the funeral director receive a complete, dignified overview as a PDF.
Frequently asked questions
Can I arrange my own funeral online?
You record all your wishes: burial or cremation, music, location, speakers, your own funeral card and address lists. You fill in everything at your own pace and can always adjust it.
What happens to my funeral wishes after I pass away?
Your loved ones and the funeral director receive a complete and dignified overview of all your wishes as a PDF — including documents and personal messages. That way, no one has to guess what you wanted.
Can I design my own funeral card?
Yes. You design or upload your own funeral card and the invitation to the service, and prepare the associated address lists.
Who will see my funeral wishes?
The people you designate, at the moment when it's needed. You record for each part who is responsible for what, so no one has to guess who arranges what.
Do I have to fill in everything at once?
No. Most people do it in stages: first the big choices, later the music and the details. Everything you enter is ready immediately and you can continue at any time.
Can I also add music and photos?
Yes. You upload photos, videos and music files or record YouTube links with your music choice, so there's no doubt during the service about what you meant.
Why loved ones benefit most from this
When someone has to arrange a funeral, they do it in the week they're least able to do it. Within a few days, there are dozens of questions: burial or cremation, which music, which location, who speaks, who should be invited. Every question you've answered beforehand is a discussion they don't have to have.
It's rarely about big decisions alone. It's the small things that give comfort: that one song, the color of the flowers, that you didn't want any speeches. Loved ones often say afterwards that they were mainly relieved they didn't have to guess.
You also record the practical side: your funeral director and insurance details, where the policy is, whether there are grave rights and where that document can be found. And you can include personal messages — in text, audio or video — that are shown during or after the service.
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- record your will and notary details
- prepare personal farewell messages
- how Bruidswarenhuis knows when the time has come
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Arrange it now — with peace of mind
What you set down today is one less worry tomorrow, for you and for them.
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